Who'd of thought that a month ago I never even wanted to come to China, and now here I am just in one tiny part of it, Yunnan, commiserating that I can only see a small part of the province. What about Shangri-la and all the small Tibetan villages, what about Dali music festival, starting the day after I have to leave for Beijing, what about all the various Yak products I'm yet to try. There is simply never enough time to do everything. So in all of China's vastness I will only experience a part of Yunnan, and Beijing. I am thinking that a return trip some day is a must.
The China of my imagination a few weeks ago doesn't exist. True, the language is hard. I learn a phrase off by heart then try and use it...blank looks. Its the tones, I can mimic them but I can't remember them just so. One word can mean five things using the five different tones. Its tricky, and coming from a foreign mouth with a foreign accent the Chinese just don't understand me.
I have taken to another form of communication - someone is talking, instead of concentrating on the words you let them all blur together and just listen for the tones, the sounds that make up the general sense of what they are saying, the body language, the language of smiling and hand gestures. Even if you have no idea what each other have said, you have still had a nice conversation. Yesterday I climbed a mountain with a man and his horse for my guide. Neither of us spoke the others language but at the top I brought us both beers and we chatted, each taking turns to say something or laugh at something. Funny!
Travelling in China you meet a very different crowd of people than in SE Asia. Travellers here a more discerning, more interested in the local character and history than in finding a beach to drink cocktails on. I have now met many people who have travelled or will travel across Russia by train. I meet people every day on their way to Tibet, or coming from Burma. Places that are hard to travel in, places most people wouldn't see the point of going to for so much effort. But people who go there want to see for themselves, take a look. You can never know what awaits you in a place, or what you will personally experience, until you go for yourself. You cannot experience the worst and best moments of life vicariously. You cannot experience a place through any persons words, although they can take you closer. I met many a moaner in Vietnam who hated the people and found it horrible "good riddance Vietnam" they said. But this was not my experience at all. Sometimes the person and their attitude creates the experience they have.
It is inspiring to meet travellers from all over the world, all with different tales to tell and takes on life. And people who have been to those far fetched places most of us would never dream of going like the Middle East. Last night at dinner a Norwegian fellow announced that Syria and Iran were absolutely his most favorite places on the planet. The people so delighted that someone was coming to see the country, the beautiful architecture and rich history. It makes me realise that what I'm doing is not scary at all, its pretty tame compared to most people here!!
